Deciding to meet with a divorce attorney is a big step. Whether you’re certain that divorce is the next move, or you’re simply exploring your options, that first meeting can bring up a mix of emotions. The good news is that a little preparation can go a long way in helping you feel confident and in control during your consultation.
Start by Gathering Key Information
Your attorney’s first job is to understand your situation, and that starts with the details. Before your meeting, try to gather as much documentation as you can about your finances, property, and family circumstances. Tax returns, pay stubs, mortgage information, and bank or retirement account statements all help paint a clearer picture.
If you already have legal documents, such as a marriage certificate, prenuptial agreement, or any court filings, bring those too. Even if you don’t have everything yet, bring what you can. The goal isn’t perfection; it’s to give your attorney enough information to start assessing your options.
Clarify What You Want to Achieve
Many people come to their first divorce consultation unsure of what they really want from the process. Take some time to think about your priorities before you walk in the door.
Is your main concern financial security? Custody arrangements? Keeping the family home? Maybe you just want the process to be as peaceful and private as possible. Having a clear sense of your goals helps your attorney tailor their advice to what matters most to you, and ensures that you leave the meeting with practical next steps instead of more uncertainty.
Write Down Questions Ahead of Time
Your consultation isn’t just for the attorney to get to know you; it’s also your chance to get to know them. Writing down your questions ahead of time will help you get the most out of your meeting.
You might ask about how the divorce process works in Utah, how long it usually takes, or what kinds of temporary orders might apply to your situation. You could also ask about communication; how often you can expect updates, how billing works, or what you should and shouldn’t do before filing.
A good attorney will welcome these questions and answer them clearly. The goal is for you to walk away with a better understanding of both your options and the attorney’s approach.
Be Honest and Open
It’s normal to feel nervous or protective when sharing personal information, but honesty is essential. Everything you tell your attorney is confidential, and the more accurate your information, the better they can protect you. If there are sensitive issues (financial challenges, past arguments, or other concerns), discuss them openly. An experienced attorney won’t judge; they’ll strategize.
Know What to Expect
Many clients walk into their first consultation expecting detailed legal advice or a step-by-step plan for the case. In reality, the first meeting is more about learning and assessment. The attorney will review your circumstances, explain how Utah’s divorce laws might apply, and outline potential paths forward. You won’t leave with every answer, but you should leave with clarity—an understanding of your options, the next steps, and what working together might look like.
Take Notes and Reflect
Divorce is as emotional as it is practical. Bring a notebook or use your phone to jot down key points so you can revisit them later with a clear mind. After the meeting, take some time to reflect. Did the attorney explain things in a way that made sense? Did you feel supported and respected?
A Confident Start to a Difficult Process
Preparing for your first meeting with a divorce attorney isn’t just about gathering paperwork; it’s about setting yourself up for clarity and peace of mind. By walking in prepared, you’ll make the most of your time and start the process on solid ground.
Our team takes the time to listen, explain your options, and guide you toward the best path forward for you and your family.
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